Love is Rocket Science

2008-09-18T05:47:00.000-07:00

[Disclaimer: All of this are my thoughts, feel free to tag if you disagree or agree, do not hate me for that.]

A friend asked what does that mean- thinking it was that love was all experimental.

Well, it isn't but then again, perhaps it is.

Love

What is love? Is love simple or complex? What do

i need to love another?

This are probably some frequently thought or asked question from a friend to another,

or even to yourself. Well, truth be told, if i can tell you what love really really

really is then i must be the smartest man on earth. But let's break it down.

What is Love?

Sometimes a person says- she is all that i think about, before i sleep,

when i close my eyes and etc. But is this Love? Love could be confused with Lust,

companionship and perhaps others. Probably Lust comes into play, when a guy

likes/"love" another girl for certain physical features she has. Be it pretty, cute,

sexy and some others.

It is true indeed that sometimes it is through this physical attributes that a person

is noticed- first impression always places a part. So in the same situation, the guy

falls for the girl because of her physical appearance and then got to know her

better. He then realised that she is a funny and interesting person, for example, and

he really enjoys her company. That people, could be what you call Love.

Wait!!!! How about companionship? In the previous illustration, the guy could be

missing a company of someone, a someone that was knows him, a someone that when he is

vexed- could thinking about and finally a someone that is always there for him. That

very need to have someone there for whenever the going gets tough, is somewhat a sign

of companionship. And so i am thinking... Isn't all that part of love? Maybe. Maybe

not. Maybe love is really that complex, for a mere mortal to understand. Or is it

just me? I don't believe it is just me.

Simpler the better

Could it be that because we think that love is complex and thus it is? Could it

always have been simple? Doesn't the statement "the simpler the better" prove this

point already?

Love at first sight is a simple form of love, although that are alot of people who

does not believe in it. I say, its hasty and its nature at its work. Then comes

chemistry, the sparks that fly when you find yourself really able to click with

another person and really enjoy your time with that other person. Simple.

Someone once said that love is the most powerful weapon of nature. With love, you can

change tides and things. That be true, most of us will protect those we love most.

Love is weird.....

A married woman, abused by her spouse, refuse to leave him. Even though, her friends

told her to and her bruises are getting seriously bad. Why? What is wrong with her?

Such women has been questioned before and they say that they still love him and they

believe someday, he will change when he realise what she's been going through and

will love her like no other. Some call this true love, others- stupid.

A man will hurt those who try to hurt his love ones, even if it means killing them.

That man will be prosecuted and shun by the society. To him- it was worth it, even if

its his life which is taken. His, only, regret is that he will not be able to further

protect them.

"I just wanted to let you know, i did that - not because i do not love you. But its

because i do."

A person would do that to one he love. Because he knows that she would be happier

that way or that he would not longer pull her down or to protect her.

Love is just not what it seems

How often in love, 1 + 1 = 2 ? Sometimes 1 + 1 = 100 or sometimes 1 + 1 = - 100. When

no is yes and yes is no. And no is no and yes is yes. "So.... what you are saying is

that you do like me? No? But thats what i thought you meant. So i am only your

friend? Why do you treat me that way then?" Maybe love can be put into an impossible

formula.

Love = Variables of myself, her, our friends, our family and every
other thing

Variables are probably the main reason for such pain. You love me, but you have your

education to worry about. You love me but your mother really hates me. You love me

but your friends think that i am a big fat loser. Or maybe I love you but i feel

insecure from my previous relationships and i do not think i am ready to trust and

love so soon YET. "I do love you... but i just met this other girl... and i feel a

certain way about her too...."

..... cont...... tag for sub topics (of this topic) to talk about....

Why even write a blog ?

2008-09-16T06:12:00.000-07:00

Introduction

Now, i intend to make sure that this blog is different from the usual ones. I shall

not talk much about myself- i may, however, relate to certain scenarios regarding the

topics.

Birth of a new blog

This day, shall be dedicated to the topic of why even start a blog?

What is so awesome about a blog anyways? From what i heard, people start blog to let

their friends know how they are feeling at that point of time or to talk about their

daily/fortnightly happenings and incidents or both and perhaps more reasons that i

may never know.

In the past, i would never start a blog because i felt the previously stated reasons

were a dumb reason to start one (no offense to bloggers). Sure sure...i say this and

yet i start a blog. And so, ill ensure that i'll make this blog different from most-

as mentioned before.

Show and Tell -
Contradicting Side

Back to topic. People blog to let their friends know how they feel at that point of

time because something crappy happened to them but they do not wish to repeat all

over again or even talk about it. Cool, so even if it's your best friend, you would

say, "read my blog, i wrote it all there" or "huh? It's really tiring to keep

repeating, just read my blog". Surely, you can tell who really cares and who's just

asking for the fun of it right?

Say you were talking to a friend and you sighed or put a sad smiley. That friend,

normal friend, goes what happened? You tell that person the story. Okay. Next,

another person does it, and it goes on. So 2 hours later, after told 5 person your

story- your best friend who just online and asked you, "How's your day?". You said it

sucks. He ask for the story. But you replied that it was really a bad day for you. He

replies, "Hey, come on, you know you can tell me what happened right?". You go, "read

my blog".

Personally, this happened to me before. I do not know about most of you. But i was

pissed and told my friend, forget it. I am not going to read your blog. [Friends are

the one that get mad at you for doing something un-FRIEND-ly. Even more so worst, if

they were best of friends.

The Positive Side

Well, on the flip side, you have a friend who went overseas or maybe you did. And you

would like to give your friend(s) the 411 about you. And that person or yourself-

won't be able to contact the other party due to strange hours or education or many

reasons. I'll say yeah, that is probably a better reason for a blog.

Back Side?

I am also sure, that there are other blogs like mine. I'll say this is an interesting

thing to do. Talking about topics- People wonder. Men wonder. Women wonder. Dogs

wonder. Cats wonder. I wonder!

If you will like to raise certain topics or add to this post- as a discussion; you

may do so on my massive tagboard!

Little Big Universe

Love is Rocket Science

Why even write a blog ?