Thursday, September 18, 2008
Love is Rocket Science
[Disclaimer: All of this are my thoughts, feel free to tag if you disagree or agree, do not hate me for that.]
A friend asked what does that mean- thinking it was that love was all experimental.
Well, it isn't but then again, perhaps it is.
Love
What is love? Is love simple or complex? What do
i need to love another?
This are probably some frequently thought or asked question from a friend to another,
or even to yourself. Well, truth be told, if i can tell you what love really really
really is then i must be the smartest man on earth. But let's break it down.
What is Love?
Sometimes a person says- she is all that i think about, before i sleep,
when i close my eyes and etc. But is this Love? Love could be confused with Lust,
companionship and perhaps others. Probably Lust comes into play, when a guy
likes/"love" another girl for certain physical features she has. Be it pretty, cute,
sexy and some others.
It is true indeed that sometimes it is through this physical attributes that a person
is noticed- first impression always places a part. So in the same situation, the guy
falls for the girl because of her physical appearance and then got to know her
better. He then realised that she is a funny and interesting person, for example, and
he really enjoys her company. That people, could be what you call Love.
Wait!!!! How about companionship? In the previous illustration, the guy could be
missing a company of someone, a someone that was knows him, a someone that when he is
vexed- could thinking about and finally a someone that is always there for him. That
very need to have someone there for whenever the going gets tough, is somewhat a sign
of companionship. And so i am thinking... Isn't all that part of love? Maybe. Maybe
not. Maybe love is really that complex, for a mere mortal to understand. Or is it
just me? I don't believe it is just me.
Simpler the better
Could it be that because we think that love is complex and thus it is? Could it
always have been simple? Doesn't the statement "the simpler the better" prove this
point already?
Love at first sight is a simple form of love, although that are alot of people who
does not believe in it. I say, its hasty and its nature at its work. Then comes
chemistry, the sparks that fly when you find yourself really able to click with
another person and really enjoy your time with that other person. Simple.
Someone once said that love is the most powerful weapon of nature. With love, you can
change tides and things. That be true, most of us will protect those we love most.
Love is weird.....
A married woman, abused by her spouse, refuse to leave him. Even though, her friends
told her to and her bruises are getting seriously bad. Why? What is wrong with her?
Such women has been questioned before and they say that they still love him and they
believe someday, he will change when he realise what she's been going through and
will love her like no other. Some call this true love, others- stupid.
A man will hurt those who try to hurt his love ones, even if it means killing them.
That man will be prosecuted and shun by the society. To him- it was worth it, even if
its his life which is taken. His, only, regret is that he will not be able to further
protect them.
"I just wanted to let you know, i did that - not because i do not love you. But its
because i do."
A person would do that to one he love. Because he knows that she would be happier
that way or that he would not longer pull her down or to protect her.
Love is just not what it seems
How often in love, 1 + 1 = 2 ? Sometimes 1 + 1 = 100 or sometimes 1 + 1 = - 100. When
no is yes and yes is no. And no is no and yes is yes. "So.... what you are saying is
that you do like me? No? But thats what i thought you meant. So i am only your
friend? Why do you treat me that way then?" Maybe love can be put into an impossible
formula.
Love = Variables of myself, her, our friends, our family and every
other thing
Variables are probably the main reason for such pain. You love me, but you have your
education to worry about. You love me but your mother really hates me. You love me
but your friends think that i am a big fat loser. Or maybe I love you but i feel
insecure from my previous relationships and i do not think i am ready to trust and
love so soon YET. "I do love you... but i just met this other girl... and i feel a
certain way about her too...."
..... cont...... tag for sub topics (of this topic) to talk about....
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writer @ 5:47 AM
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Why even write a blog ?
Introduction
Now, i intend to make sure that this blog is different from the usual ones. I shall
not talk much about myself- i may, however, relate to certain scenarios regarding the
topics.
Birth of a new blog
This day, shall be dedicated to the topic of why even start a blog?
What is so awesome about a blog anyways? From what i heard, people start blog to let
their friends know how they are feeling at that point of time or to talk about their
daily/fortnightly happenings and incidents or both and perhaps more reasons that i
may never know.
In the past, i would never start a blog because i felt the previously stated reasons
were a dumb reason to start one (no offense to bloggers). Sure sure...i say this and
yet i start a blog. And so, ill ensure that i'll make this blog different from most-
as mentioned before.
Show and Tell -
Contradicting Side
Back to topic. People blog to let their friends know how they feel at that point of
time because something crappy happened to them but they do not wish to repeat all
over again or even talk about it. Cool, so even if it's your best friend, you would
say, "read my blog, i wrote it all there" or "huh? It's really tiring to keep
repeating, just read my blog". Surely, you can tell who really cares and who's just
asking for the fun of it right?
Say you were talking to a friend and you sighed or put a sad smiley. That friend,
normal friend, goes what happened? You tell that person the story. Okay. Next,
another person does it, and it goes on. So 2 hours later, after told 5 person your
story- your best friend who just online and asked you, "How's your day?". You said it
sucks. He ask for the story. But you replied that it was really a bad day for you. He
replies, "Hey, come on, you know you can tell me what happened right?". You go, "read
my blog".
Personally, this happened to me before. I do not know about most of you. But i was
pissed and told my friend, forget it. I am not going to read your blog. [Friends are
the one that get mad at you for doing something un-FRIEND-ly. Even more so worst, if
they were best of friends.
The Positive Side
Well, on the flip side, you have a friend who went overseas or maybe you did. And you
would like to give your friend(s) the 411 about you. And that person or yourself-
won't be able to contact the other party due to strange hours or education or many
reasons. I'll say yeah, that is probably a better reason for a blog.
Back Side?
I am also sure, that there are other blogs like mine. I'll say this is an interesting
thing to do. Talking about topics- People wonder. Men wonder. Women wonder. Dogs
wonder. Cats wonder. I wonder!
If you will like to raise certain topics or add to this post- as a discussion; you
may do so on my massive tagboard!Labels: Birth
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